“Our most basic emotional need is not to fall in love but to be genuinely loved by another, to know a love that grows out of reason and choice, not instinct. I need to be loved by someone who chooses to love me, who sees in me something worth loving.”
“Forgiveness is not a feeling; it is a commitment. It is a choice to show mercy, not to hold the offense up against the offender. Forgiveness is an expression of love.”
“People tend to criticize their spouse most loudly in the area where they themselves have the deepest emotional need.”
“The object of love is not getting something you want but doing something for the well-being of the one you love.”
“In fact, true love cannot begin until the in-love experience has run its course.”
“People tend to criticize their spouse most loudly in the area where they themselves have the deepest emotional need.”
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